We have been married for 15 years with two kids (12 & 9). I have a good job and she has her own business. We both make good money (she makes more). There have been lot of ups and downs in our relationship but we always made up and forgave. Not this time. She said she has no feeling for me anymore and divorce is best for everyone. I want to work things out. I have suggested marriage counseling but she said no.
Here is the series of events that lead to her decisions:
1. My parents lived with us. My wife and my mom fought once last year and made up
2. Her Niece (22yrs old) moved in the house two months ago. My parents moved out without saying any reasons.
3. Her father came for a visit and we were out (she stayed home) to see a movie. When We came home she was pissed off because the house is a mess.
4. Next morning her father told me I should clean the house since she works six days a week.
5. I got mad because there are two women in the house and I am expected to all the house work. I made everyone (include me) to clean the house on Sunday.
I work too, I take care of the kids, help them with homework...
6. I had a talk with her Father and I told her father if it were not for the Kids I would have walked out of this house long time ago. He then told her and she got pissed off and wanted divorce.
I have apologized and done lots of things to make up but nothing works. She said she needed some time to think about divorce or not.
What do you think I should do? I do not want divorce.