so, when i was a mere teen, and looking to get into rated r movies back in the day, i got really high and by coincidence happened upon the most bizarre movie ever. i remember only one scene:

a couple is having issues, has a bbq in backyard.
husband, if i remember correctly, adorns a "penis" costume and proceeds to embarrass his wife by simulating an ejaculation.


i'm probably misremembering, but this scene sticks out.

i know this movie exists...