Ok, so I'm going to return for Thanksgiving break and my ex will be in town. I want to ask her to coffee so we can talk, because originally we had intended on maintaining some sort of relationship (a relationship that was never really clarified).
I thought we had mutually broke up, and she hasn't tried talking to me... I think she is in the college busy and high life so to say, if she's not studying she's socializing.
We haven't spoken in well to be honest we haven't honestly communicated sense we left for college. I really hope she decides to join me for coffee.
We talked about being good friends, but she hasn't even acknowledged my existence; for instance the only two times she called were when she was drunk. It was a 2.5 year relationship, we've been away from each other for nearly three months...
Well the questions are
a: what do I say to her? What do I do ask about over coffee?
And
b: should I wait until we speak to move on
And c: Should I ask any questions about her college life?