So I'm in 2nd year in secondary school and this boy I like called Sam💖😊 is in 3rd year. He has a girlfriend who seems to be really nice, super cute and skinny and has like a good personality. I'm really shy and I wear glasses so I look kind of ugly😭😁 and I'm no comparison to Sam's girlfriend. I never would get to talk to him because were obviously in different classes and he's also with his girlfriend. 1 of my bff's who I met in 1st year is 1st cousins with him and they know each other really well. 1 day I texted her that I like him and the next day in school she asked me about it and I said I was just messing. She then said oh yeah good because that would be kind of weird. (She said this laughing, but I was still really embarrassed).
Anyway, I really like Sam but I don't see us ever getting together😪
I don't know what to do because I really really like him😍 I know it's probs just a crush but I can't get him out of my head😳💖❤️ Ly Sam xxxx
Ps please help if you can, thanks a mill xxxxx

If you have any self respect... stay away from him.. he has a girlfriend. Some day some other female will do what you are considering doing and you won't be very happy about it.

He has a girlfriend. Nuff said.

You're young, you'll crush on many guys in your lifetime before you grow up and realize that having a crush isn't everything, that real relationships, take work, and maturity. Neither of which you are capable of. That's not an insult, it's just fact.

Until he's single, you stay away, because that's the decent thing to do. Sadly, at your age this advice will likely go in one ear, and out the other.

Good luck.

I agree with the others.

Sam has a girlfriend and it would be sneaky and disrespectful if you try to pursue him. Alty is correct, you will have many crushes and they will ALL seem important at that time i.e. "I cant' get him out of my head" sort of thing.

Ahhh I remember when everything was exciting a new.

Trust me, you will get over Sam and like another guy.

Just do the honorable thing and stay away from Sam.

Good luck.

Also, wearing glasses does not make one ugly. ;)

Crushes come and go, some really intense. He has a girlfriend so why embarrass
Yourself by telling everyone, or trying to attract him away from his girlfriend. Sorry nothing to be done about THIS guy, so focus on having fun with friends, even making guy friends.

Please stop thinking of yourself as less attractive, as confidence and a healthy self esteem and self image is a very attractive quality.