I have a 3 month old and his father and I are not married. He's a great guy, loves his boy and tries to send what he can, when he can. So far it's only been $50 and some clothes, which helps a little, but not much. I haven't applied for child support because I know he's having his own problems-he also has another child from a previous relationship that he has to support. I'm trying as hard as I can to make ends meet and make sure we can get by. I'm the sole provider for my son right now, and his father lives 3 states away, so I don't even have the personal support. I guess my question is more of just peoples opinions. What should I do? Get the state to rob him... or just keep scraping by? :confused: