Husband had an affair for 2+ month
We have been married for 10 years with 3 kids, and 2 dogs. All was good.
In January 2015, my husband could not get a job in town, so he took a contract job in a different state, 800 miles away.
He ended up stayed there for full 10 month, and came back home on the until October 31, since his contract was done.
Today is December 6th, I got a call and text from a woman in the evening.
She asked me if I am my husband's wife. I said yes, and she told me my husband cheated on me with her. In a second, my whole world collapsed. I am still shaking while I am writing this.
She says, my husband posted his profile in eharmony.com, met a single woman and introduced him as a rich single man in late August.
It turns out that they had an affair for over 2 month (September, October) until the day he came back to family. While my husband dated her, he took her very expensive dinners and shows.
They had sex multiple times, she stayed over at my husband's place, celebrated my husband's birthday. She even picked him up at the airport when he flew from home. It makes perfect sense, since my husband did not come home at all in 9-10, excused he was very busy at work.
It was a full blown version of relationship!
My husband told her he has an agent took care of his sons, house and dogs in his hometown (it means me). My husband pretended a rich man and told her he would buy an expensive house for her in her area, and started to see the houses there too.
Although, when he came back home, he did not break up with her clearly, told her he might come back, but he stopped to call her since. That's why she was anxious, googled his name and my name, and called me today.
I confronted my husband. He lied hard first, and then collapsed, and said all is right. He was lonely, made mistakes, but would ask my forgiveness, he likes to save marriage, and he loves me. He suggested to go for a counseling.
What a day! My whole world became upside down today.
For the past 10 years, I have worked so hard with my full time job to pay bills, take care of kids. I was the bread maker in our family, and I never dreamed he would cheat on me.
In a shock, I already called my parents. They will come out in a week to sit down with us. My parents lend us so much money when we bought our big house... I thought we would be together until we die, but now I am thinking about divorce.
I am so scared and broken. Please help.