Hi,
I have a very good trusting relationship with my boyfriend and we have a flat together. I am a nurse and work shift work. His mate has recently split up from a long term relationship and I think is wanting to go to a strip club with him this weekend while Im at work. I am really horrified by this and feel like its almost like he is planning to cheat on me, the thought of him sitting there getting excited by another woman and getting off on it makes me feel awful. I really don't know if I'm over reacting but I have tried to talk to him about it and all he says is that I don't know where we are going and if that's the case I can't just go OK lads I will wait outside.. he doesn't see my point of view at all on it and I am scared if he does go the implications on our relationship it will have after and how I feel about this, its made me feel extremely insecure and I don't know what to do.. Help please!