Ex contacted me after one month no contact why
Hey all,
Ill try to put this in a nutshell, a little more than a month ago, my boyfriend broke up with me, during a very stressful busy time at uni when I had exams. I had no idea it was coming, the last week he spent so much time with me, he even went shopping with me which he normally wouldn't, it was like he was making an effort, I was really happy. But then we got into a fight because he hadn't spent the last 2 Saturday nights with me (there were with his male friends) and I was angry cause I was like... you better spend this sat with me, and he was vague... (that was sunday) 2 days later he said he wanted to break up or have a 2 month break, I was shocked, I rejected the break at first, but then went with it, then 2 days later I text him and told him I wasn't waiting its over... he then text me back and said he sent me a letter and I should read it before making decisions. I called him the next day and said wats going on? He then just said let's just break up... so that we did. 2 weeks later... the letter came... 4 pages long, nothing hinting a break, just lovey lovey blah blah. Anyway he contacted me last Friday exactly a month later, at 1:30am in the morning, and he txted me hey, know its not cool contacting you, but just thought id see how your doing, going away tomorrow for work for a month, hope all is well and your family is doing OK. I didn't reply and I won't. What's with the nice message? What does he want? Why did he do it? Makes me angry that he think he can be all nice after the mean way he broke up. Doesn't exactly help me to move on, he'll probably text me again when he comes back? Ideas/opinions?