I have this thing where I make myself really nervous around my boyfriends. It started when I dated someone years ago and we had no connection and I always felt weird around him (I think it was due to age difference, I was 17 he was 21). After that I had a boyfriend and we were I felt so entirely comfortable around him I could do anything and I felt totally fine (however, I was still getting over my ex which was the one who I felt uncomfortable with). Well me and that boyfriend broke up. I've been with two different people after that. And now I've developed this thing in my mind on "what if" I don't feel comfortable with my boyfriend?" and it makes me nervous and cautious of what I do. My boyfriend I've been with now we've been together for six months. I love him more than anything and we talk about getting married and I can't see myself with anyone else. However, we are great together but it's still in my mind and I worry about being comfortable with him. How do I try to rid these thoughts? Ex. If we go to a concert together, I'm afraid to be all crazy and jumpy and sing out loud for the sake of him thinking I'm stupid or weird although I know he totally loves me. I get worried in the car. I'm so sorry this is long.

“Be Who You Are and Say What You Feel Because Those Who Mind Don't Matter and Those Who Matter Don't Mind.”

Awe, just what I needed!

If you can't be yourself, what the point in even being together??

Its hard to just be yourself I mean if you love your guy like I do and I've grown to be very comfortable around him but he's not comfortable around me which I'm working on cause I want to spend forever with him!!