Just trying to figure out why I don't get asked out.

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Maybe it's not your looks, but rather your personality. Many boys can be intimidated by pretty women as well.

Of course we're shy! Well, at least 60/70% of us. Before guys ask a girl out they want to know if you'd be somewhat compatible, and by doing so they believe that they became friend zoned. When guys think they're friend zoned, they don't know how to get out of it and become shy towards expressing true feelings.

So then I have to be the aggressor...

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Originally Posted by bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

So then I have to be the aggressor......

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No, that's not what I'm trying to say. I'm trying to say that if you are interested in a certain guy and he's interested in you but you believe he might be shy, try to hint towards the fact that you like him. If you are positive he likes you or you are "dying to know", then ask him out! It's a little cliché to say guys are the only ones to start the relationship.

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Originally Posted by marcusaurelius1

no, thats not what im trying to say. I'm trying to say that if you are interested in a certain guy and he's interested in you but you believe he might be shy, try to hint towards the fact that you like him. If you are positive he likes you or you are "dying to know", then ask him out!! It's a little cliche to say guys are the only ones to start the relationship.

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All of the guys I dated, I have been the one to ask out.

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Originally Posted by bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE

All of the guys I dated, I have been the one to ask out.

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If its necessary then do it more, there isn't anything wrong with that.