Hi... I recently asked to have a break with my boyfriend of nine and a half months and I'm not sure what else to do. I asked for a break because I noticed more and more things he did really angered me and it bothered me to think the more time we spent with each other, the more we really didn't get along with each other, and that scared me because you would think more time together would be beneficial for both people, but it ended up not being that way for us. Now he's angry which is understandable, and I don't feel good either, but the thing I wanted to do the most was stay true to myself, and my feelings and be honest with him. I don't want to keep on kissing him or hugging him when I don't feel all right about him or pretend like everything is okay when it isn't. I'm not sure if I did the right thing now... but I want to be honest to the both of us... I don't want to break up, but I want time to think about whether this is the best relationship for both of us. Has anyone ever done this before, and how did you handle it? I don't want to date anybody else or anything during the break, I just want to have time to seriously consider my feelings for him. He says he was so happy with me, but there are two people in this relationship and I'm not happy, and it should be mutual I believe, but do you guys think that this will strengthen our relationship if we go through it? And should I tell him how long it'll last or an approximate time as to when the break will end? Thanks