This is very difficult to discuss, but I wanted to get some input on what I should do. When my son was 10 years old and my niece was 6 years old, he inappropriately touched her. My sister came to me and told me about the incident, but my son has never discussed it with me, at all. Every time I asked him about it, he would get very defensive and angry and say nothing happened and refused to talk to me. About 5 years ago, we lived with my sister and her family briefly when I relocated. According to my sister, during that time, my niece (now 22) started cutting herself apparently because of the stress of my son being under the same roof. However, she outwardly showed no signs of hate or dislike towards him. In fact, they would do things together and she seemed quite protective of him when her very forward girl friend made advances toward him. At the time he was a very naïve 21 year old and had a hard time being around others, especially girls. I kept a close eye on them because of the past incident to protect both kids. Now she is newly engaged and my sister has decided to let me know of the cutting problem as my niece has entered counseling and so the incident has reared its ugly head again. My son, now 26, has a job and never goes out except to work. He stays in his room and plays games with online "friends" and prefers that to actual interaction with live people. He seems very uncomfortable around the family in general and seldom interacts with anyone. I am very concerned because I have only heard my sister's side of the story and I have never been able to get him to talk about it. Now, my niece's psychologist says she has to "confront" him about the incident and I am very concerned that this will further push my son to alienation even though I know this is something that needs to happen so my niece to move forward. My sister says it will help my son too. But I am really scared it will make him worse and more of a hermit than he already is. I don't know what to do at this point. I am not saying I don't believe my niece, I am just not sure how to handle all of this information and my son. I don't want to accuse, I am angry at myself because I don't want to believe her, but if it is true, how do I help my son?