I broke up w. my GF the other day and Im not sure why? What I mean is, nothing was wrong really, we didn't fight, we got along well, physically things were great. I just wasn't content with the feeling of having a "luke warm" relationship.. and I felt like it was affecting my career or something... :confused: She would cook me food, buy me gifts, offer to do pretty much anything I needed, dry cleaning, etc... she's beautiful, smart, and all that stuff... she's just not the right one for me, and I'm pretty sure of that. She's 24, pretty shy, and I guess what I am saying is, her thirst for life in general I don't believe is as strong as mine... She's not very trusting of people for instance, her parents are divorced and Mom is a functioning alcoholic... I don't have these issues in my family, they are together, and don't drink... but anyway, now I'm going off on a tangent... could anyone relate with what I'm saying? My question is, am I just in search of perfection (in a dillusional sense), should I count my blessings and get back together with her because I have nothing to complain about? Or am I onto something, and probably right for just wanting to be friends... oh and she's not into music like I am, and that actually really bothers me... I'm 26 and I've been in 4-5 relationships, this one was by far the most normal, but almost too normal for my comfort... oh man, what's going on? Lol:) I feel happier now that I'm single, but I am not sure my feelings warrant a break up with a girl who potentially is really solid. Any advice people? Thanks in advance!
p.s My new career is very demanding and that's sort of my top priority, this is certainly a major factor.