Girl Needs SPACE, How Long,should I even stay single at all?
Multiple threads merged
Following up on my story, It has been almost 3 days till we have talked. I did talk to her sister on myspace, but at the same time, I do think it was Monica the whole time. But I do feel great about everything... I have a job interview coming on Tuesday, and I've been hanging out with friends everyday and doing active things.. Im just NOT sure what I should be doing.. YES I have to ask myself what do I want... Should I wait for her? Even though she did say she was going to come back when she is finished with this issue she has.. We even promised that we would be a couple agaian after this. But I keep asking myself... How long... why hasn't she even texted once to see how I'm doing? I know its her space and all.. but I mean I can't just sit here like a doll.. Ive been thinking about dating other girls.. but then if I do that.. and weeks come by and she comes back to me.. then what? Im just stuck atm..
PLZZ any tips will help a lot
Thanks
GREAT EndINGGGGGGG almost, but it will be soon.
Ok, so anyway from my other stories as how I said she didn't talk to me for 3 days, and I didn't talk to her I was at the break point. I was TIRED of the drama and games. She needed space I gave her what I expected was enough time. She told me "i was dying to call or text you but i didnt want to look like the idiot"
Basically.. if you haven't read my other stories this is a summary.
She broke up with me cause she just got out of a 3 year relationship with her ex before me ( we were together for 3.5 months) BUT she still had feelings for him.. NOT love feelings, but just missing feelings, and she didn't think it was right to date me while she was still missing him.
Ok.. so you.. my heart was completely broken, I was hurt.. I didn't talk to her for 3 days but on Saturday I texted her. (she was soooo GLAD that I did cuase she missed me so much) <<< diidnt tell me that right away though. Then we talked all night. I know this seems VERY weird but I ended up making her cry for hours.. ITS FELT GREAT. I made her feel what I felt when she told me the bull about the break up. So.. Sunday.. I called her friend to see if she wants to hang out. This got my EX even more mad and , calling me and texting me non stop telling me NEVER to call or text her again. This and that.. at the time I didn't give a.. I WAS MOVING ON and making sure SHE knew it. Im not a baby to be played around and wait for false hope.
She was the one who told me that its OK to move on if I wanted too.. So I did.. the 2nd she seen that I was not bulling that's when SHE realized that she ed up. All her friends KNOW I'm a great good looking, nice, well mannered guy. And I think that made her see that she truly did not want to lose me.
I know this is TRUE love... I know it's a weird story.. but you KNOW how hard it is to tell the person you love that you are still thinking about your ex (just missing) nothing about love feelings or anything... I mean.. you know HOW hard that is to tell someone? That's REAL honestly. I know it sounds CRAZY... but I do believe her and NOW she knows I'm not on no bull and that at anytime I see she's lying or anyhting I'm just going to move on. <<<<< this is what made her change...
SLOWLY but since Monday.. she is slowly coming back.. she told me she loved me like 5 times, haven't told me that in weeks.. Told me that she was still my cutie pie and little names like that.
I know she STILL might be just playing the game or what not,, ONLY time will tell.. BUT I am not waiting... I know this is bad on my part.. but yes, I am talking to her friend on the side.. we are going to hang out on Friday.. same time I started talking to this girl from my colllege whose really interested in me. SO either way.. she s me over again.. I'm prepared to move on. But Yes I still love her and I will wait for her, but I can't tell her how long ill wait for... but the OLD monica I used to know is coming back.. so that's a good sign..
Sunday when she found out about her friend and I, and that I was going to move on and that I wanted to get all my things from her house... she was PLANNING on running away for a few days.. that's how ed up she got in the head from this.. she knows she ed up
MY ADVISE TO THOSE WHO ARE WAITING FOR THERE EX'S ::::::::::
Don't wait plzzzzzzzz. MOVE on and SHOW them that you are... seeing how you are NOT in their life and in someone else's is the ONLY way they will realize they NEED you. Don't listen to HOPE.. it won't get you anywhere. You want them you want you more?? Then make them want you more... SHOW them you aren't afriad to move on.. show them that YOU Don't NEED THEM. Show them that you are the MAN and not the little pussie in the relationship. I KNOW its hard.. but since we broke up I Still haven't told my ex I loved her, and she told me many times.. She is NOW realizing that I am the one for her and I KNOW she is forgettiing about her ex faster than she would have ever known.
How Long do "breaks"usually take and what's difference between break up and a break?
Ok.. My girlfriend (ex for the time being) and I haven't talked in 4 days.. last time I seen her I made it clear that I was going to give her time and I erased her number and every connect that I have of her to make her know that I want her to have her space. We only dated almost 4 months, but we both agreed it was the best ever... it was love at first site.. she started school again, hanging out with friends and things. We didn't talk before for 3 days.. this was when she said she needed some time to think... during those 3 days.. she even told me that she was DYING to talk to me and text me but she didn't want to look like she was stupid becase she is the one who said she needed time. I made the mistake and texted her to see how she was doing. So I told her this time its for real.. and I deleted all her numbers.. extc..
Sooo I was just wondering.. how long goes it take.. does it matter on how strong we were as a couple before hand? Or does she just want space to miss me so much that she will want to see me even more? Im a bit lost in this situtation.
She even told me when we decided to take a break, that this will make our 2nd part of our relationship stronger and better. I have no idea to think she's just playing me and bullSh#$ing me or telling the truth.
I talked to some of my friends.. they toldme it could take weeks.. maybe even a few months.. I'm not sure what to think at this time..
Any tips or suggestions?
I know what NC really means now after I ed up once.. but same time she was dying to talk to me.. but I made it sure that this time.. if she wants to conect me, she HAS to make the first move.. cuase I cant. Deep inside.. I know we will be together again.. but it sucks not being able to talk to your best friend or be with that person.. : ((((((((
Im Crushed. I don't even think I can live without her.
Gf broke up with me needing break.. she's EVERYTHING to me... I tried to forget her and move on.. I cant... its too hard... I cry every night don't know what to do anymore... the pain is just too much... I tried sleeping at friends house (taking me mind of things).. talking to other girls... I have no idea what else to do... I can't live without her... I grew up with a VERY hard and BAD childhood... I had NO one my whole life until she came.. now she's gone.. and I can't even think what to do now... Ive been thinking about killing myself so many times and just ending it I have no one to go too.. no one to listen to me but her... pain gets worst and worst everyday... I'm a lost dog without a master...