My family upset about destination wedding
I have dilema. My fiancé and I decided a year ago when we got engaged that we wanted a wedding that reflected who we are and what we love. We decided to have a destination wedding in Cuba with our kids. We invited people to join if they wanted to share in our day and enjoy time on the beach. We also decided that we would have a small reception when we returned for friends and family to see a video and pictures of our wedding. There was also the cost factor - we could only afford so much and having a wedding local with reception and then a honeymoon was far more than we could afford. So this was our decision.
I got a fair bit slacked from my dad and people about the cost to travel for a wedding. Yet my dad said he wouldn't pay for any of my wedding if I had it here. So the people that are going I feel are upset and feel obligated to go. Most of my family has money and travel often... when its convienent for them. I have also been told that it was selfish of me to have a destination wedding because many of my family would have liked to see me get married and have the reception here.
Isn't my marriage supposed to be about me and my fiancé? How should handle the talking behind my back that is happening about this?