My boyfriend cant deal with his mams death
HI
I really want to help my boyfriend to deal with his mothers death,she past away on the 9 of December 08 so its only being a couple of months and he was ever so close to her she was very sick for a long time so he help nursed her...
I think he blames himself in a way for her death once I heard him saying to his sister that if his mother didn't have him she would still be alive,she died of kidney failure in the end you see when she got pregnant on him she got a drug called the anti d injection and this caused bad blood cells to enter her body so she was on dialiyis for years and eventually died from this... a couple of weeks after she past he got back into his same old routine going out with friends going back to work ect: but then I noticed when he does go out he drinks a lot and I mean a lot and twice he has kissed other girls! I'm in a delama because I don't want to turn my back on him and also I know this isn't like him he doesn't remember what he is doing and also he say he loves me and can never picture me in his life.. I really don't think he is coping he wnt talk about his mam to me or any of his family..
Can someone please help me in what to do? Because I really don't know?