30 yr old who wants to move out and afraid to tell her parents
Hi,
I am a 30 yr old adult who feels like a child. My parents are European and Catholic and I still live at home. That itself should explain it all. My life has been kind of a roller coaster. I have been engaged twice but couldn't go through with it. I am now the happiest I have ever been with one problem, I want to move out on my own, I mention it to my parents some time without actually telling them and they always say, "well why do you have to move out, that's not the appropriate thing to do, the day you get married is the day you move out." I think they are afraid that if I move out on my own I will never get married and not getting married and having children is the worst mistake that can ever be made, "it's not normal". What is normal anyway. I know I will be married one day but when the day is right and right now it's not but I can not live with my parents anymore. I have to get out there and learn responsibility, learn how to depend on myself and not others. How do I make them understand. Understand that this will be good for me and that I will appreciate them more because now we get in faces too much that there are days that we can't stand one another. I believe that by me moving out, we will respect more and appreciate more. Don't get me wrong I have always been able to do whatever I wanted except for this. Why do I worry so much, and why is it so hard to tell my parents. I don't want them to hate me. Please help, I am at my wits end and I don't know what to do.
Adultfeelslikechild