Isn't life too short for widowed people to have hangups/baggage?
I became a widow last October after being married only a 1yr and 2 months. I'm now dating a wonderful man who was widowed a little over a year ago, and he was married 42 yrs. He says he still is having a hard time getting over her at certain of the year or when he opens drawers, etc. He still hasn't cleared out one of the bedrooms of her stuff. He called me back after a lengthy conversation and said he had to tell me something,"I love you", he said. Then he said he should have told me in person. I told him I loved him too. Since then he's been different, saying he needs time, space. Do you think it scared him or he scared himself? I'm not sure what to think. He doesn't want me to say "I love you" to him because he "needs time", and he says he cares for me but won't say he loves me again. I'm not pushing it at all... as we've only known each other for a short time and he says he needs to know me more... Majorly Puzzled!
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Thanks... that's what I wanted to do, but was just getting a little scared about the whole thing. I'll let you know what happens.