To all the guys who are "AFRAID" of talking to girls!
It is always a good reminder as we dudes go out into the dating world, from whatever age, to remember one key thing: Looks are 30% of the entire process, the rest is you... who you are, how you handle yourself and most importantly, how you present yourself. There are always a TON of questions on how to talk to a girl or what you should say, so read below the key to actually reading into a girl's mind, so to speak:
A Helpful Tip:
Good looks may get your noticed, but confidence gets you in the door. Simple process here. Being a guy, almost ANY girl will be attracted to a guy who is confident in himself. If you are a guy, follow my advice to getting yourself a "date" with a female you are attracted to:
Walk up to them, BS with them and then ask for their number. Regardless of their answer, make sure you act like it didn't bother you at all. Their answer and their reaction should have ZERO effect on you one way or another. The key is to ensure that they know you can live with or without them! Maintain the attitude that you couldn't care less whether they gave their number to you... You make sure you keep it short and sweet, the less the better my friend!
Confidence 101... for more tips, let me know, but I PROMISE you confidence is the key to dating, not being good looking. Girls want a guy who is confident of himself (not cocky) and isn't tripping over his own tongue around them. This is for ALL ages. Girls KNOW that for better or worse, a lot of guys are afraid of them. So, being the proactive guy who is confident and sure of himself, no matter the age, makes you look really good.
Never fear rejection!! Fear of rejection is worse than to actually be rejected.
Now I can promise you if you take this approach to talking and approaching women, you will have eventual success, and a lot of it if you wish. The more you have, the higher your confidence becomes. But be reminded that there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and no self respecting woman wants an arrogant guy around them. Lastly, I am not saying that you need to portray someone you aren't, all I am saying is be confident in who YOU are, no matter what, and roll with it. Don't try to be someone else, be YOU, and be the YOU that you are proud of. I have been on several dates before, but believe me when I tell you I have been rejected more than I have been "accepted" so I know what it is like to be turned down.
