Not invited to sister in laws baby shower!!
We live very near and see my brother and sister in law frequently and although I will admit I do not care for her that has never been expressed to anyone but my husband and he feels the same. She is having a baby shower this weekend and as I was talking with my mother in law I asked what the invitations looked like and she said you didn't get one? I said no I was not invited. She looked stunned but dropped it. Well magically 24 hours later my mother in law calls me with this lame story of how she mentioned it to my sister in law and she said well she was supposed to be invited!! My month in law then tells me this lame story of how they sent to invitation to our old address from us moving over a year ago. Now did I mention that we have our mail forwarded and have always received our mail. Plus if it was returned why did the host not tell the sister in law the address was wrong and it was returned?? This is just another instance of my mother in law trying to cover up for the sisiter in laws shortcomings and rudeness. Should I send a gift now that I will receive an afterthought invitation?? I already have another set of gifts for when the baby arrives.