Am I overreacting?
I feel really annoyed with my boyfriend because of three incidents which illustrate a greater unease I have.
Incident one: we had an important appintment and I told him th etime 20 minutes before the appointment I'm locked out of the house (we lost the second set of keys) and I phone him- he's in the pub with his mates. He knew when the appointment was, knows I hate being late and he knew I couldn't get into the house if I turned up before him.
Incident two: he'd rather go to a ex work colleges stagnight than go to a family event that has been planned all year. Luckily I haen't booked the flights yet (flight my family were going to buy for him).
Incident three: It was his birthday weekend but my parents were coming up to see me. I asked if he wanted to join us (fancy hotel sightseeing in a nearby city) but said it was OK if he didn't want to come in order to see his family- he said yes. Then a few days before he just has to go back to mummies. He sees her every week. If he couldn't not see her on his birthday he should have said before we booked the hotel.
I just feel like I come second fiddle to his mates and his family are more important than mine. Obviously his family should be more important to him but spending some time with mine would be nice. Also his family have given him zero help since he became unemployed at christmas- I'm supporting their son.
I feel like he wants to stay in this dead end town forever to hang out with his mates and mummy. I think as soon as my Ph D is done I'm going to go to america or somewhere else far away and I'll just have top prepare myself that he won't want to come too.
I know I should talk to him but I don't want to cause trouble if I'm overreacting.