I myself am married, but I have fallen in love with a co-worker. He is sixteen years my senior. This is my first affair, but he has had many flings in his past. He says he loves me more than any woman before in his life. And when I have tried to break it off in the past he begs me back and says he can not live with out me. He knows I want to divorce my husband since I am not in love with him, and I only married him because we have a child together.
He thinks I should stay with my husband until my daughter at least turns eighteen. He has two grown children who still live at home since they go to college. And he tells me he loves his wife because she is the mother of his children, but he is not in love with her. But then again he would find it hard to leave her since she has done nothing wrong. And when I was going to divorce my husband he talked me out if it. And he was worried to dealth about me looking for someone else.
Even when I have left him in the past he wants me to promise I will not date anyone we know, and threathens harm to me and anyone I pursue. I love him, I do but I think I love him more than he does me.