I'm a 43 year old single female who has not had sex in three years. No, that is not a crime. I work over 60 hours a week and I pull myself together every day always look and smell good. No kids , I have my own home and I'm okay. But since my break up three years ago, I have rarely dated at all. I'm now lonely for companionship and plain old sex. I've been invited to a swingers party and I think this will jump start this part of my life. It can open me up to meet and attracting new people. And in the meantime I can have sex my question is does anyone other than myself think that this is a good plan or should I keep my legs closed and try and date and meet people the old-fashioned way. I'm not going to the party to meet people to date per si... I want to have sex!! I strongly believe that after I start back having sex the energy I'm putting out will change and I'll meet more people to date. I personally don't think that this new lifestyle I'm embarking on has any thing to do with finding and developing a long-term relationship other than waking up somethig that has been dorment for so long. So in my mind this is okay. But I could use some feedback for the 20 percent that I'm not sure about.