Need help with what skills to use.
I am not posting this to make anyone feel bad so please realize this is my issue and mine alone. I am being vague about what was said due to it not really an issue. My issue is skill use and lowering my high emotions and anxiety.
What skill do I use when one thing has been said about me that is hurtful and I start looking at everyone as talking about me or thinking bad things. I know check the facts but that is not working. High emotions as I am going back and forth from Everyone is saying stuff about you to Susan you are freaking crazy get a grip. Negative coping mechanisms are being thought about.. I am able to say I will not use them. Really stupid thing about that is the way I am thinking of them.. I will use this to show the other person how much they have hurt me. I have always prided myself on not blackmailing others with myself injury so that thought is totally nuts.
Anxiety is high emotions are high. I don't know what to do. I will say this has me concerned that I MAY backpedal. I don't want to and will keep trying but the fear is there.