Is my dad being sexually abusive?
My parents are divorced and I live with my single dad and two younger brothers (I'm a girl). Because it is only my dad who is in charge of me (and my brothers of course) he wants to check on me to see how far I am through puberty but I think he is taking this a tad bit too far...
Every once in awhile, he would ask me to take off my clothes. Everything. Yes, everything. He would look at my boobs and squish them a bit (yes I know it sounds so disturbing) and his excuse to this is see if my breasts are developing and he says he has to know how big they are. He would also make me take off my pants and he looks "under there" and his excuse for doing this is to see "if I'm growing pubic hair" but sometimes I don't know if he is really doing this to see if I'm reaching puberty or if he is just being dirty and makes up an excuse to why he is doing what he is.
And not to mention, yes he does look at my underarms to see if I'm growing hair and he would also make me take off my underwear to check for that white discharge and he would also actually look through "the hole" to see. He makes me bend over and then he would make me spread out my legs and then looks through my... yeah, "the hole" to check if I have discharge coming from there. He insists on coming to the bathroom with me so he knows when I'm on my period. And yes it is overly disgusting and may be disturbing to you.
I don't know any other single dad that does this. So is my dad being sexually abusive? And also what should I do to get him to stop?