Hi I dated this guy a long time ago and we broke up I think I was 20 a the time. WE broke up because we lived far away and I think I felt I didn't love him enough.. Many years later we saw each other again and he is separted from his wife recently and im single now.. WE saw each other and started talking again and we kissed with full of love and passion. I think I have been in denial many years I just realized I made a mistake many years ago and have been always very much in love.. Maybe the timing was wrong and we lived in different countries which we still are.. WE are in contact and will see what happens... WE are very much inlove.. My question do you think I was in denial many years ago.. Has this happened to anyone before

I'm a guy and what I think is you're second guessing yourself needlessly. Why even dwell on those youthful experiences. To your question, I think we all have regrets and second guess ourselves, but what is the point unless you like punishing yourself.

NOT ME, hopefully not you either, but then again maybe I've been dumped to much to even dwell on what if's. should have, would have, could have. A word of caution about guys separated from the wife. Especially those long distance ones. It's always the other chick that's wasting her time. This means YOU!

That's not good and worse than any denial of the past you're feeling now.