How long do I stay devoted wife?
My husband and I have been separated for 8 months. We have 3 children total, but none together. We have been married for less than three years. Well, he kicked me out on my butt eight months ago, and still hasn't filed for a divorce. The first few months were very hard, and we argued a lot. But not anymore. We get along great, and the kids still want to see each other. We even spent new years together. It is bothering me because I don't want to turn into "friends". We are still legally married so I also feel obligated to stay devoted to him, and he refuses to talk about if we are going to work it out, or not. So I just wait patiently and hope that he will come around. Some days I want to give up and tell him to not call me anymore. I don't know how long I can keep doing this. I need someone who will love me, not just be my friend. My question is should I give up, or keep being there for him, and wait for his decision? He has been there for me during some tough times and I hate to just push him away. HELP!