Should I go to this wedding..
Hi there!
I'm not too familiar with how weddings go as I haven't gone to many so I may have this wrong.. please tell me what you think! My fiance's brothers wedding is coming up in three weeks and I feel rather offended in a few aspects. First, his brother and fiancée asked me, in front of the entire extended family during a quiet moment at dinner, if it was alright to have their wedding on my birthday but only after mentioning they already booked the venue. I felt obligated to say yes considering the entire family was staring at me waiting for my reply. We currently live out of town so I typically fly in to see my friends and family over this weekend for my birthday but that is out of the question now because they have already pre planned the entire weekend. Am I allowed to skip out on the Sunday brunch following the wedding to go see my own family and friends? Would that be rude? I also was not invited to the bachelorette party or even the bridal shower.. which I only found out about because my fiance's eight year old niece asked me why I wasn't there. A few girlfriends have suggested politely declining attending and going elsewhere but I feel like they might be simply looking out for their personal best interests aka they want someone to go on a weekend away trip with. Thanks so much!