I'm real shy and nervous around boys , I can't help it :(. Is that a bad thing?

Not a bad thing at all, I would rather it, it makes me more confident when meeting girls who are shy to be fair..
As I have a laugh and then they slowly become less shy and actually realise I am a laugh and they can be a laugh as well :D

No it's not bad at all. It's normal for somebody to be shy around other people. Just don't let it bring you down

Just be you and ignore people who make you feel you are incorrect in your own skin. Ignore boys and girls alike who do it. Shame on them.

Do you like being shy? Do you wish you weren't? I love shy people, their sweet!

Correct me if I'm wrong but I never gave you bad advice, I gave you my opinion by saying I love shy people. The "rate this answer" is for disagreeing with someone with the answer they gave you because it was an unreliable source, or just bad advice.

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Originally Posted by cowandchicken

I'm real shy and nervous around boys , i can't help it :(. Is that a bad thing?

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Honestly I have a girlfreind who was really shy but looked at me a lot, so I asked her out and that's when I realized the shy girls are normally the nicest and the cutist

Being shy is not a bad thing I'm 19 20 in 4 weeks and sometimes I'm still shy and quite around new people, I find some people who are loud too much I feel like they need to be the centre of attention because they may be at bit insecure and need the attention to feel better about themselves but some people are loud and some people are quite that's just the way things are, people are different and its not a problem you should worry about.

Being shy is not a bad thing, but you may not get noticed by the one you like.

P.S. hottjen, when people give opinions, you can't mark them bad by clicking "disagree".

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