Is my ex looking for something better?
My story is a bit long but I'll try to make it short. I have been dating this girl for 3 years ( which were great ) and she broke off with me because I didn't socialize with her friend, family and didn't want to go to the same place. She also kissed another guy on several occasion ( the same one ) and she has feelings for him. The problem is that he is returning in France so they cannot date.
Now I told her 2 month later, that it is enough and she has to decide between getting back together or never having contact again. By the way, I changed tremendously during these 2 month ( lost weight, socialized more, planned a trip... ) to prove her that the reasons she broke off with me doesn't exist anymore. When I told her that, she said she wanted to give us another try, but the same night she wasn't able to sleep because she was doubting the decision.
The day after she explained that she wasn't 100% sure to go back with me. I told my decision didn't change: me or nothing. After some talking she begins to kiss me and then we had the most amazing sex.
The same night I call her back and she says she is tired, and she is crying all the time, she wants to pass some time alone. Does she want to check if there is something better?
She knows I am leaving for 3 weeks to Europe soon. I really love her, but she is leaving me without answer, and I really want to move on with my life either with her or without. I want to make it work so should I leave her more time? Maybe it is a necessary step in our relation so that there is no problem in the future?