Please help.

Why do you and your husband have to move, if you are only in a different city than your family? Why can't you make more frequent visits to see them, and help out when you can.

Why does it have to be all or nothing? Why do you take your anger and frustration out on your son? And, on your husband?

Your own family should come first. Your husband a child are your first priority, and your first responsibility. Surely you realized this when you married him and moved to where you are now.

That he changed his mind about moving back to where you came from, is not a worthy enough reason to insist that he does now. What are HIS reasons for not wanting to go.

And, why can you and your husband not compromise?

Frequent

What about the husband of the sister that passed away? Why is he not caring for his daughter? Why is it up to your younger sister and your parents, or you?

Bottom line, you're married, and you have to focus on your family, not the rest of your siblings. You have a husband and a son. You should concentrate on making your life and theirs good, where you are.

You can't always get what you want.