What should I do, my wife lied to me.
First off, I generally have bad anxiety, and I'm posting on here to get some assistance with a situation that happened with my wife last night.
So my wife and I generally talk about all of the finances. Everything we spend, are going to spend, etc. When I was looking through our finances, I had seen that she went shopping on a day earlier in the week, and not mentioned it to me. So I went to grab the repciets out of her purse, (which we normally do to log on our computer our finances), and I found them both for the clothes that were on her account. Also, at this time she was supposed to be at work, but the time stamp on the repciets stated that she was out shopping.
So I asked her about them, she said, "No I was at work all day" I said, "No the time stamp says you were shopping, why are you lying?"
After the 2nd time asking, she finally said, "Yes, i was out shopping, because I just needed some me time. I knew you would see it on the bank statement, but I was worried you would be mad."
I'm not a mean guy, I'm not abusive by all means, I do have strong insecurities, and anxiety, which I went to a therapist for. But now, my anxiety is all over the place, and we don't have time to talk about it because we are both busy with school and work this week.
Should I feel really mad and upset by this?