We've been seeing each other on and for almost a year but we've currently been dating for a month. Two Fridays ago I was gone until Wednesday, other than being home Saturday night to sleep due to some family thing, and since I came home Wednesday I have been extremely sick.

We had been texting everyday ( I usually initiate the convo). Except yesterday he only replied twice and didn't come over ( he usually comes over daily because my brother and him are really close friends). My brother was supposedly at my boyfriends house yesterday but when my brother came home I asked him why my boyfriend wasn't with him and he said I should know and I said but I don't and then he just said "well I don't know then".

I texted my boyfriend twice after he stopped texting me once a couple hours later ( no reply) and once before I went to sleep to tell him goodnight. I honestly don't know what is going on I thought things were perfect until now he just ignoring me. Why is he doing this? I just don't understand, I'm really worried and I don't want to lose him again :( sorry that this is so long).

Seems like he might want to off again. The two of you have been in this unhealthy off and on relationship for a year and I don't know how you allow yourself to be in this form of relationship. When it comes to being in a committed relationship your even together or your not. I recalled being in this type of a relationship in high school but ad grown women I can't do this anymore.

So I don't know why he is ignoring you but you need to rethink and reflect on the last year and ask yourself how many more months or years you want to go through this. It is self reflecting time!

He is obviously reacting to some past resentment, or a unresolved issue between you. But it's a big red flag when you don't know what it is, or it cannot be talked about. Such immature behavior is not good for a healthy, adult relationship, so leave the BOY alone until he is ready to talk like a man.

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I'm really worried and I don't want to lose him again

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What's that about?

Maybe he has just been busy? You have tried to contact him, he might have things on his mind, he will do so when he is ready.

That right Tal! And your brother don't want to get in the middle of it but ifit was my brother I would have gotten an earful.