Is there any hope for me and my ex girlfriend?
Hi, I've never done this before.
My ex and I were high school sweethearts, best friends however after 2 years into the relationship she decided she is unhappy and dumps me without any 1 concrete reason. I was working a lot of hours and sometimes we struggled to see each other.
Devastated I decided to not contact her for a bit to clear my head and just focus on my job, life whatever just to get by. A couple of weeks later she is dating some guy that she works with - IMO he's not a looker and has nothing going for him apart from immaturity.
A little time passes and I contact my ex, make small talk and suggest to meet up, just to discuss what had happened for some closure - the night I got dumped she did all the talking but I got told she can't see because of the new guy. I went from being her 1 and only trusted friend/partner to being a nobody to her - she just erased me from her life.
Now she acts/feels like a totally new person. Every time I tried to contact her she would get angry for no real reason and she acts as if she has done nothing wrong and gets angry because of how I feel (about literally being so close to someone then to a nobody). She also twists EVERYTHING as if I am the devil yet she seems to be able to do no wrong - despite 5 years of me loyally standing by her side both as a boyfriend and partner.
Since then we have had arguments about disagreeing with each other but have decided to be friends, and have had one small casual conversation on the Internet.
What's going on? Is the new guy a rebound? Is there any hope?
Its been 2 months since we broke up.
How can I let my ex know I'm happy for her? Or should I?
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Hi, in a nutshell basically ex and I were together for 2 years, best friends for 5. She dumps me in August and 3 weeks later is with someone else without giving me any closure, or chance to talk/resolve anything.
She broke my heart, I lost a stone in weight, I currently have no social life apart from uni and am going through therapy for severe depression. So yes she hurt me lol. Anyway she's still with the loser but its been about 4 months since she dumped me and we haven't spoken apart from a few messages online. I love her so much that I feel, despite her breaking my heart and her cutting me out of her life and choosing people she barely knows over me, that "letting her go" is the right thing to do (shes clearly moved on from me, but we have a long history). I want her to be happy and I'll treasure the memories and relationship we had forever.
Not as some BS get her back, technique but I feel that accepting and letting her go is for the best despite how much I love her. Truth is despite her many flaws (yet she thinks she's perfect lol) I loved her from the heart, she was my best friend, and we'd spoke about our future, sadly that's irrelevant now.
Should I let her know? Or should I just accept this myself and continue moving forward?