Originally Posted by letmetellu
I don't think that you should ask her out like on a date. But I don't see anything wrong with you having a party and having a few kids over and include her is the list. Have your parents be there to chaperone the party, keep every thing on the friend level.
You might also ask your mother if someday she will drive you and th girl to the movies if she will go with you. If she says yes then discuss it with her and her family to see if it is OK.
Dating at your and her age is not the thing to be doing.
OH and about her cousin, invite her to your party also, she will soon learn that it is not her that you are interested in.