Originally Posted by
roxypox
your comment wasn't insensitive at all. Her comment, however, borders on insensitive.
Of course losing a friend is like losing any close relationship... you distance yourself and even grieve.
Her talking about Ana for 3 hours isn't that strange, even if she says she wants out of the friendship. (I can go on and on about people I have a problem with) also its a current event and that might be why she talks about it alot.
As for her giving up the friendship... it does seem from your post that Ana might be a little bit possessive and demanding. Once a friendship becomes a one way street, it won't keep... unless the person who takes manages to grab a hold on the person who gives.
I get that Sarah is annoyed, and even though she says she misses some dogs more then the kid... it might just be her way of distancing herself from the whole situation... its easier to distance yourself and keep it that way if you don't evolve yourself emotionally (that is in a positive way...)
lol of course this is just my take on it.... from what you've said.
and once more, no you weren't insensitive. also you have a right to your own opinion and you seem to be a supportive BF. Who listens and seeing as you know both parties you do have a right to an opinion, even to voice it.