I am too possessive! It hurts my boyfriend! I really want to change!
Suggest me a solution.

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Originally Posted by zl

i am too possessive!! it hurts my boyfriend!! i really want to change!!
suggest me a solution

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Hello z:

People who are possessive don't believe anybody will love them because they don't think they're worth it. So, if you want to fix your possessiveness, develop some self esteem. It might take some counseling.

excon

Why can't you stop acting possessive, what's stopping you? Just change your behavior and think before you act, or speak. You can't control anyone but yourself, so control yourself.

Tal's right. Just take an extra minute and pay attention to your thoughts/words/actions. It might take some time to do this, and it wouldn't hurt to try to figure out why you do act possessive in the first place. Counseling might not be a terrible idea.

And in what ways are you too possessive, what are you doing that makes you believe this is so