My girl and I have been together almost 10 months now. However, she has a bad temper problem and sometimes she freaks out on me and pretends like everything in the world and everything that's wrong in her life is my fault. I give her her space yet she still acts angry towards me. She makes me feel great but sometimes whenever I try to help out she says I'm lazy and I half-*** things but I don't, I do everything I can to help. She is a lot like her mother and her mother says that she doesn't even know why my girl lets me over cause I barely help out but I ALWAYS offer to help out. I want to call them a bunch of hypocritical *****es but I know that probably won't do me any good. Whenever I offer they say "no it's alright" and yet they think I'm lazy sometimes. She makes me feel useless sometimes and I go into a depression about it. I want to freak out on her so bad sometimes but I know not to let my anger get the best of me. I don't know how to deal with it.

I think that you should tell her how bad her behaviour makes you feel like. If you do help her like you said and she still keeps making you feel useless, then she doesn't deserve you. Maybe it is an indirect way to tell you that she doesn't want to be with you anymore (girls usually send signals instead of telling sharp what they want) or maybe she is just very ungrateful. Ask her and find out!

All right, thank you very much!:)

You should'nt let a girl that you only been dating for 10 teat you like that when her mom says your lazy that means she's still a mama's girl and she has to cut the umblical cord and grow up and you don't deserve a girl like that

You should never let any girl treat you like that. From what you've said, she's probably learned her behavior from her mother, but that doesn't mean she'll ever be able to change. It sounds to me like she's controlling and verbally abusing you.

You deserve someone who treats you with respect and it obviously isn't her. I'd move on and find someone with some appreciation.

What is it about this girl that appeals to you? There is no reason you should put up with this kind of treatment. Treat YOURSELF better than she treats you and get away from her and her shenanigans.

I would have been long gone, because I know there has to be a female with a sweeter disposition than this girl, and her mama.

Stay and be depressed if you want to, but the way to handle her is to leave her alone, and pray for the next victim she gets.

Here's how you deal with it: click your heels and run the other way and don't look back.

I think you should give it another 6 months and try to really impress her and show her you really love her, this should include buying her lots of gifts and even letting her have fun with other guys if she wants. If she's still treating you like rubbish after 6 months, give it another 6 months and spend even more money on her! It's important to realise that you're lucky to have a sexy girlfriend, you should not be criticising her at all. She is right to act like the boss and you should probably apologise to her for complaining about it. Just accept the situation and treat her like the princess that she is, you could even offer to massage her feet and do her laundry and ironing. You should be on your hands and knees worshipping this fantastic girl. I don't understand your problem.

Ha!

You need to date someone who is nice to you my advice dump her and then stay low a couple weeks then find someone new