How to deal with a evil step child that steals from parent
Hello, I'm having a serious issue with my husband child. We were married at 22 and at the time his son was around 4.5 years old living with his grandmother (my current mother in law) His Grandmother raised him since birth pretty much because his mother (My Husband sons mother) was 16 at the time and wasn’t ready to settle down and become a parent. Things were good in the beginning because it was me and my husband. We hanged out and went on dates as couples do. So one day out the clear blue my husband stated to me that he wanted to have his son to remain permanent in our home. And asked if I was ready to step up to the plate as a support. In the back of my mind I wasn’t ready because I do not have kids of my own and I do not have patience none whatsoever when it comes to kids. At this time his son was around 7 or 8 Years old, So just imagine the boy has a mother and son bond with his grandmother and was used to his living there and her rules etc. That was his comfort zone. He was happy there living with her and his Grandfather. So the day came and my Husband snatched him from his happiness and it’s been hell since has been living here with me and my husband. He's rude very disrespectful, He lies, steals and has an eating disorder. He's a know it all and belligerent, very arrogant for his age! Yes I know. I cannot tolerate him. I CANNOT STAND HIM! He has caused soooo many problems in our marriage with me and his father, My In Laws, His Mother and her family, Because all the lies he told and sending subliminal messages about me to people. He’s like the Omen. He’s a very bad seed and some people see that he including me but my husband wants to be in denial. His Mother his dead beat Mom, She’s Irrelevant to this conversation. So on this note, I’m inclosing. He needs help.
Don't know what to do or handle this issue