28 yr. old son still at home not working and dissrespectful to us
I have a 28 year old son who refuses to keep and job and dad just hands him money so he will not make our lives miserable. The time has come for me to step up and get ugly. He treats us w/ no respect, abuses our goodiness to him and has just recently threatened to burn our house down if we decide to move, obviously because he would basically be homless. He has no money, no job and my husband and I are seeing our relationship falling apart, trying to come up with the right way to get him on the right path. Obviously treating as a poor , son who needs a break is not working. He is working us!! It it not the first time he has said he would burn our house down if we decided he needed to get out and figure out how the real world is. My husband will be losing his job at the end on Nov. and we had lots of plans for us. Our daughter on the other hand finished college in May 08, has a great job and moved out the past July. How can 2 children be so different. HELP!! I am just about at my witts end with this and ready to put him out to experience what I have read about "tough love".