Originally Posted by Marriedguy
:eek: Let say that I’m totally against anyone going outside there marriage. I understand the reasons why you decided to do so. Sex, intimacy, and the feeling of being desired is a very important part of married. When these things don’t exist the marriage will start to nose drive.
Now, you really need to ask yourself do you love you husband and do you want to save this marriage if you do want to save you marriage. If you do then, you need to end this affair cold turkey, today and then you need to open of lines of communication with your husband. I wouldn’t suggest you tell you husband of this other guy. This is kicking your marriage when it’s down. Seek counseling for yourself individually and then add your husband to the mix. If you two love each other it will work itself out and things could be better they when you first met, you do remember why you married him?
If you don’t want to save this marriage then you need to crash land it and walk away. You have to separate and ultimately divorce. This is regardless of this other married man. For one I wouldn’t continue to see this person because as you said he has no interest in begin solely with you. You deserve to have someone love, desire you and makes you happy.
After your marriage is over and you emotionally, mentally healthy enough to go out and date. Trust me you will find a man that will love, desire you and make you happy.