Over controlling, two faced monster in law
:confused:My fiancé and I were planning to get married on June 19 2010 (just a tentive date). After discussing with each other we decided that a fall wedding was something we wanted so we decided to change the date to October 10 2009. Now we thought this date would be good as we still have over a year to plan ext. Long story short we called his parents to tell them our plans. About one minute into the conversation all hell broke loose. She began accussing the whole decission on me, asking him if is was because I need the money (I work a good full time job and a part time job) and any other thing you could think of. It seems that everyone of our fights is started over his overpossesive crazy mother. My parents are good with the date, his date likes that date, and his 21 year old brother and his fiancé are game as well as everyone else. When we moved in together she had to have a say in everything with that as well. SHE Wouldn't EVEN LET HIM PUT HIS OWN UNDERWEAR AWAY!! Please give me some ideas on how to handle her!! I was going to have her help with planning but she just keeps pushing me away.
Why should this be her decision, who told her when and when not to have her wedding!!
If you have any suggestions please post them I need any help I can get.