Our 24 year old daughter lies, never returns calls, only comes home when she needs
Okay, we are at our wits end on what to do and maybe, just maybe someone out there can give us a little help. We have a 24 year old daughter. This year we have noticed her behavior has changed dramatically. She was always one to come home. Now she rarely comes home. She never used to drink, now she is out as much as she can and drinks whatever.. we are not sure. In the past 6 months the following has happened--2 rear end colllisions, her fault, luckily no one filed any charges.. --she claims a man raped her --she claims someone gave her drugs that she thought was ibuprofin--and last but not least she got bit by a bug.. which turned into an extremely bad infection.
So here is our dilemma.. we would love to be able to communicate with her, but she only tells us what she wants and even that we do not know if it is the truth or not. We have told her we understand she wants to go out with her friends, but please text us where she is spending the night.. that does not happen anymore. We are very concerned about her personal hygene and do not know the people she is spending time with, even though we have asked to meet them. How do we get her to start talking to us, the truth or what do we do?