End of a freindship over our granddaughter who is young
My husband and I have been in her life since she was born five years ago, my son is this child's father but her mother has hooked up with someone new... the new boyfriend's family has rather taken over in our grandchilds life and I didn't mind that until we started being told we couldn't have her over to our house to spend nights with us-under the excuse that she hadn't been behaving so she couldn't go anywhere! Yet she is allowed to stay over at a girlfriends for a sleepover or leave the state for two weeks with the boyfriend's family (her mother didn't even go).So I asked her mother why we were being punished and couldn't be with her any more.. I got yelled at... told to leave the house.. pushed and sworn at.. told that no one likes me anyway the only reason anybody puts up with me is because of my husband-another complication is that we were friend's with her other set of grandparents and with her new family's parent as well and after what the boyfriend said to me yesterday.. I would say all friendships are over! We have been nothing but nice to all people involved.. (over and above most normal friendships and this is what we get back!) none of these people think at all about what they say and do around this child.. so as grandparents I know we have rights and I plan to check them out.. but I wonder if she would have to pay at home if she was to come over here! There is no cruelty involved but it seems to me her mind could become confused about the whole situation.. I want to do what is right for her! The situation is not fair to her at all.. right now I feel my hands are tied... any help? :confused: one other thing.. we were storing some belongings of the boyfriends families and due to this situation I now want them to come get there things... is that acceptable?