I need hellp with my mom .
Hello everyone, I am a 20year old female. I will give you some background first.
My mom and dad broke up before I was even born. I lived with my mom till I was about 13 then moved with my dad because my mom couldn't afford a house and we had to live with my grandpa, which meant I had to take an hour long bus ride to school everyday. My dad lived a 10min walk away from the school. So I would usually just go to his house after school, sleep over.. etc. Eventually I ended up living with my dad. (Long story short.) My dad was addicted to harddrugs and excessive drinking. After I finished high school at 17 I moved with my mom. Who now lives by herself.
My mom currently lives in a little 1bedroom apartment. As soon as I moved in she told me we would find a 2 bedroom apartment. Its almost been 3years and still we are here. I have no where to put any of my stuff, when family comes over its so embarrassing like my dirty laundry is 1meter from them and stuff. My mom does have money now because of her dad(my grandpa) passed away 2years ago and she inheritated A lot.She isn't even working anymore also she owns now an iPhone, MACbook, $3000 worth of camera equipment, Wii, everything you name it.
Every time I try to talk to her about moving she gets all mad and says she doesn't want to talk about it. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm working now to save for college, so I can't move on my own, let alone I don't want to live by myself right now. I am to embarrassed to invite anyone over. I have no friends because I'm insecere about my living sitution.
Also I think my mom is depressed, she sits at home everyday, she has no friends, she says she isn't a people person. She never wants to do anything, she always feels sick. I tell her to please go to the doctor and she says she isn't THAT sick. I don't no what to do I feel so trapped in this 1bedroom and I;m SICK of it! I want to have my own room, get organized, start my life and I don't know what to do. Aren't moms suppose to help there children as much as they can?? Why isn't she helping me? Can someone please help me? Thank you so much for reading!