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  • Jul 9, 2010, 10:35 PM
    Sophiiee
    How can I make it taste better?
    My other half and I have been together for almost two years now , and our sex life has always been great . However , I have never particularly like the idea of him in my mouth but after talking to him about it he says that he loves me giving him bj's but he would find it that much nicer if he could without me either running to the bathroom straight afterwards or just stopping my using tissue .
    I really want to make it more fun for him but I really can't stand the taste . He says that it taste different if he eats different foods but I don't know what ones would make a difference to me . Anu suggestions on how or what I could do?
    Thanks .
  • Jul 10, 2010, 12:32 AM
    redhed35

    Flavoured condoms...

    Flavoured lube...

    Take your time,if your not comfortable doing anything,don't!
  • Jul 10, 2010, 02:14 AM
    CarrotTalker

    The taste of semen is can be heavily effected by the man's diet.

    What type of foods does he eat? Fast-food/junk foods? Fruit? Vegetables?

    Eating a good amount of fruit/vegetables and laying off sodas/fast-food is not only is good for your overall health, but can help semen taste better!

    Don't expect an instant result just because he ate some fruit one day, it takes a few weeks for a healthy diet to take effect.
  • Jul 10, 2010, 10:11 AM
    Just_Another_Lemming
    This site tells you what he should eat and what he should avoid.How To Make Semen Taste Better

    Here is some additional help
    Sexuality and Technique: What Foods Make Semen Taste Better

    Just as an FYI, the same types of foods to eat/avoid apply to women as well as men. So, you can help him change his eating habits by eating the same things he does.
  • Jul 10, 2010, 10:30 AM
    jmjoseph

    Get him to drink pineapple juice. I had a girlfriend once that bought it by the case. Just sayin'.
  • Jul 10, 2010, 10:54 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    Plus so you use a tissue, it should not effect his feelings, sounds like a issue he may need to deal with.
  • Jul 10, 2010, 11:01 AM
    kutocer

    Its not for everyone, My Ex loved it and towards the end I must admit that I started to as well with us both enjoying it. After cuming in her I would go down on her which made her even hornier then before but as I say its not for everyone. Try some of what the peeps have said and let us know how you get on :D
  • Jul 10, 2010, 01:33 PM
    martinizing2

    The high fruit diet seems to work well, especially pineapple and pears.

    But ,as stated, you should be comfortable with it and he should be understanding and patient. Takes two to make sex it the wonderful pleasurable and bonding experience it should be.
  • Jul 10, 2010, 04:20 PM
    troublemakerman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sophiiee View Post
    My other half and i have been together for almost two years now , and our sex life has always been great . However , i have never particually like the idea of him in my mouth but after talking to him about it he says that he loves me giving him bj's but he would find it that much nicer if he could without me either running to the bathroom straight afterwards or just stopping my using tissue .
    I really want to make it more fun for him but i really can't stand the taste . He says that it taste different if he eats different foods but i dont know what ones would make a difference to me . Anu suggestions on how or what i could do ??
    Thanks .

    If you don't like it don't do it. My wife would not go down on me, I never got mad I never pushed the issue. She enjoyed my down on her and I enjoyed it and I loved her and it made here happy.
  • Jul 10, 2010, 04:40 PM
    ohsohappy

    You could always just finish I off with your hands so you don't have to taste it. Or just don't do it. The others gave good advice too.
  • Jul 10, 2010, 04:59 PM
    simoneaugie

    Have him share an open-mouthed kiss when your mouth is full of it. Discuss at that point how sexy it is/isn't. If he likes it, you could catch in in a cup for him to swallow.

    Sorry, but what I said is the sarcastic equivalent of, "if you don't like it, don't do it!"
  • Jul 10, 2010, 05:06 PM
    Alty

    I'm not one for swallowing, I get enough calories a day without that extra bit. ;)

    It's not for everyone. Sometimes it's not even the taste, it's just the gag factor, or your mind not willing to accept what you're swallowing.

    If you don't want to, then don't. If you spitting it out ruins the moment for him, well it's time for him to suck it up, literally and figuratively. ;)
  • Jul 10, 2010, 07:52 PM
    jmjoseph

    Use a mint, or better yet a cough drop, in your mouth while you are doing it. It gives the cool, minty, fresh, sensation for him, and the taste cover-up that you are looking for.

    Then have him do you with one in his mouth. Get him to gently blow on you after a few minutes.

    You'll be amazed at the new feeling. And new taste.
  • Jul 11, 2010, 03:53 AM
    Just_Another_Lemming

    JMJ, I have to spread the rep but wanted you to know I think your responses here are spot on.

    Sophilee, you both need to stay away from asparagus!:eek:
  • Jul 11, 2010, 09:13 AM
    positiveparent

    I think all males want us to swallow, how I overcame this was learning to deep throat, but of course that's something that takes time to master, just for the record when you deep throat it goes straight to the stomach, and you don't taste it.

    However I like most others got sick of swallowing especially because of the taste and like altenweg I too am not short on protein, so one day I kept it in my mouth and we started kissing, and I just spat the lot back into his mouth and told him you're so keen on swallowing swallow that, he didn't persist in wanting me to swallow it after that LOL, he face was priceless too..

    He also ran to the bathroom, big baby LOL..
  • Jul 11, 2010, 09:27 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Sophiiee View Post
    How can I make it taste better? Any suggestions on how or what i could do ??

    Hello S:

    You can't. And, his diet, is HIS diet... Look. Sex involves exchanges of bodily fluids. It just does. If one wanted to, one could gag about ALL of it. What makes you think your vagina tastes so good?

    Nope. It's a matter of how much you want to please your partner, and how much stuff you're willing to get used to... But, I can tell you this... Stuff that I DIDN'T like before I got used to it, I LOVE now.

    On another note... It's a real turn off to have a girl that spits. I wouldn't hang around for that.

    excon
  • Jul 11, 2010, 09:46 AM
    excon

    Quote:

    redhed35 agrees: have you ever tasted sperm?
    Hello red:

    NO! And, if a chick tried to spit it back in my mouth, it would be the LAST time she touched me.

    Excon
  • Jul 11, 2010, 09:52 AM
    redhed35
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello red:

    NO! And, if a chick tried to spit it back in my mouth, it would be the LAST time she touched me.

    excon

    Have to say that's not my cup of tea either,there's a line,there's diffently a line.

    It gives me heartburn,that's what I say anyway.

    I use a tissue,we both are happy.
  • Jul 11, 2010, 10:05 AM
    positiveparent
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello S:

    You can't. And, his diet, is HIS diet.... Look. Sex involves exchanges of bodily fluids. It just does. If one wanted to, one could gag about ALL of it. What makes you think your vagina tastes so good?

    Nope. It's a matter of how much you want to please your partner, and how much stuff you're willing to get used to... But, I can tell you this... Stuff that I DIDN'T like before I got used to it, I LOVE now.

    On another note... It's a real turn off to have a girl that spits. I wouldn't hang around for that.

    excon

    I only did this the one time anyway if its OK for me to swallow it why not him?
    It had the desired effect in my case, Plus I learned to deep throat so no more swallow problems, he's happy Im happy.
  • Jul 11, 2010, 10:52 AM
    kutocer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by positiveparent View Post
    I think all males want us to swallow, how I overcame this was learning to deep throat, but of course thats something that takes time to master, just for the record when you deep throat it goes straight to the stomach, and you dont taste it.

    However I like most others got sick of swallowing especially because of the taste and like altenweg I too am not short on protein, so one day I kept it in my mouth and we started kissing, and I just spat the lot back into his mouth and told him youre so keen on swallowing swallow that, he didnt persist in wanting me to swallow it after that LOL, he face was priceless too..

    He also ran to the bathroom, big baby LOL..


    That is just priceless absolute priceless.

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