Need a quick favor.. Please
I'm a Tamil brahmin from South India.. I'm in love with a non-brahmin Bengali.. I'm 23 n he is 26 and I can imagine what happens when I present this matter to my father.. My mom knows but will accept only if my father accepts.. My father is so strict and he won't listen to anybody in taking important decisions, not even my mom..
We are so much in love and is past 2 years.. My parents will start inviting proposals once I get a job, am hunting right now.. He is employed.. We wish to have a proper arranged marriage, since we don't wish to elope.. His mother knows, and yet to tell his father.. The problems that will be arising would be difference is caste, culture, food and finally language.. We too know that it's a huge lot difference and we have nothing in common, other than our similarity in ideas, perception of life and the love and willingness to sacrifice and compromise anything for each other.. My parents will give more importance to the society than my love and my dreams..
I really don't know how to convince my father.. We can't part too, we are so much involved that we cannot live without each other.. I can assure my parents that he will not leave me and will take good care of me like now, forever..
Please recommend..