Boyfriend's mother is dying and affecting the relationship with his daughter
Okay my boyfriend's mother has been sick from 2007 the same year I got pregnant with his daughter she and I have had outs since then as she told me that my daughter would quote "never be loved or accepted by her or her family" she said my child would be retarded with no shoes or clothes which is far from what the situation is now with no help from her or her son. Now she's been diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and its affecting the already strained relationship between my daughter and her father as well as the relationship between he and I. Now I don't fault him for wanting to be there for his mother as he waits for her to die but he wants me to be there for him when he's not there for his child. I don't know what to do as his girlfriend/child's mother since he isn't doing his share as a father. Can someone give me advice?