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  • Dec 9, 2005, 11:06 AM
    Delaynee
    Having a ball...
    When giving oral sex to a man, wh at type of erotic things can stimulate his testicles that can help him climax? Also when you are on top?
  • Dec 9, 2005, 11:29 AM
    nymphetamine
    I apologize in advance to anyone I offend with this answer. I am sorry. Forgive me. Okay there this little place where the "manhood" meets the testicals and you apply very gentle pressure there. There's a little smooth place there and you can tease it with your tongue. Please don't sue me.
  • Dec 9, 2005, 12:08 PM
    Chery
    Have fun and be safe!
    Dear Nadine, if you are not fibbing about your age, you are 19. Congratulations on waiting this long to ask a question of this type. If you have a 'steady' boyfriend, the best thing would be to ask him what he likes since this is a personal experience between you two and you should communicate about such issues if your goals are to make each other happy, just as you should be able to tell him what you like. If you have not heard about a book called Kamasutra yet, it's published in many versions, look one up and both of you read it. I'd get it at a bookstore as there are many to choose from. This way you can both find out what your tastes are and also learn that there is nothing to be ashamed of between two consenting adults. One thing, please, do remember that condoms (even during oral sex, some even have different flavors) are very important, even if you are on the pill, because the pill does not protect you from HIV, Herpes, and other STDs and it would be a shame to get pregnant or worse when not ready to take on the responsibilities or consequences. As a matter of fact, you should both get blood tests to reassure a carefree process of learning and developing your sexuality. Apparently you feel you cannot talk to your parents about this subject or you would not have posted it here. Too bad because it's really a parent's duty to teach their children about safety in any aspect of their lives - and also about sex, maybe not getting into such detail, but at least let you know about the literature that is available once you are ready to learn. Good luck and enjoy life - most of all be safe!

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  • Dec 18, 2005, 10:47 PM
    James W. Acker
    Be Gentle
    In any thing you do that might stimulate the testicles be gentle, because they are very easily hurt. Plus there are not much you can do to then other than just fondle them, hold them in your hand, some guys even like to have the girl suck them into her mouth, (Not my thing). Instead of thinking about the testicles you should pay more attention to the penis itself. There is a very sensitive spot on the underside of the penis, right where the head connects to the shaft. This is a very good spot to use the old butterfly flick with the tongue. But to make the guy nothing it better than wet lips around the head and a hand wraped around the shaft and some up and down action.
  • May 15, 2008, 07:39 AM
    britster
    I have put ice cubes in my mouth before when I have done it and it makes my boyfriend go crazy lol I'm sorry if I'm being to blunt... but something you should def try

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