My first serious relationship breaks up. Should I beg him back?
Hi guys!
My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago after a two yr relationship. The night before he broke up with me I found out that he was texting another girl because some how he sent me the text that was suppose to be for her and when I read it I was like what!! And of course I called him to ask what was up with the text , and the first thing he said was "its nothing serious I was joking with her" and that I was taking everything the wrong way and that it was nothing like what was going through my head.. I was so so upset I hung up on him. The next day he asked me to come over to his place so that we could talk, so I came by, I told him that he had no business texting any other girl than me because that’s what we had agreed on when we first started the relationship, we both said that we were not going to talk to any other girl or guy because we were both really jealous people .so you would understand why I was upset, and also because I thought he was cheating on me! But according to him he had never cheated on me or even thought about doing it. And for some odd reason I believed him I don’t know why but I had this feeling telling me that he was telling the truth, so after all the arguing I was like OK let’s forget the text thing ever happen and just move on! But then he starts talking about how he has so much going on right now with his parents getting on to him about his career work and trying to finish school and that maybe him being by himself would be the best thing right now... he ended up breaking up with me and of course I told him that what ever his decision was I was going to respect it, that I could not force him to be with me if he didn't think it was the best thing to do at the moment. If you ask me I think I was a good girlfriend because I was always faithful and honest with him never pressured him about anything... well the weird thing about all this is that ever since we started dating I did not think we would be together for long something kept running through my head saying when we break up ,what am I going to do if we break up and blah blah and about a month before we broke up I kept telling myself you need to break up with him you need to break up theirs things you have to do for yourself like get in school . I knew that as long as I was with him I was never going to try to go back to school or do anything for myself, I don’t know why!! Yea I know it sounds crazy... well now that we are not together I miss him so much and I hate that this ever happened because we never really had too many problems in our relationship and I really don’t know why this happened... even dough he told me that I could always call him or text him if I ever needed anything or just wanted to talk, I feel so empty and I want him back I want us back!! What should I do?? Should I try to talk things out with him again to see if we can make it work out again or should I should I just leave it alone for a few weeks and see if he changes his mind and loves me enough to get back with me?? What should I do? I hate talking to any of my family or friends anout this...
Just when I was getting him off my mind
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Well it has being almost a month since my boyfriend and I broke up , and believe it or not I was doing pretty good not too bad . I started going out more hanging out with my friends and completely stopped texting him or having any type of connections with him, I just thought that was the best thing to do for myself. Little by little I would stop thinking about him as much as I use to at the beginning .but then the moment of truth came! I was at a club with a few of my friends and out of no where I see my EX walking in!! And omg I was like what in the world what is he doing here :( I was not too happy to see him... well but at the same time when I saw him I felt like going up to him and hugging him! But I told myself that's a NO NO! So I didn't .I know he saw me because he didn't stay for long and that made me kind of sad even dough I did not talk to him or said hi or anything . Well the whole point of me telling you guys this is because I am a little confused. When I saw him yes I missed him but I didn't feel love for him ! I am not sure if it might be because I never really was ever in love with him ? Was it just that I was so used to him and having him around me... or wait am I in denial?? I know I know I sound crazy right... any how I kind of feel like I am back at square one I can't get him off my mind again!! Damn it freaking sucks